The Blue Bird

Who you are

The Blue Bird highlights the aspect of hiding the truth within ourselves while displaying what society teaches us to be.  Many individuals struggle to express themselves because they believe that their fit to society isn’t quite right. They believe that being different or being their own person is not accepted by the people around us. To tell you the truth, there are individuals who will judge you for who you are. This judgement starts to become the basis of our lives as we start to grow into the person we never wished to be.  Our search for happiness may end right here because it can only be sought by being true to who you really are and what you truly love to do. 

In the poem Charles Bukowski writes, “There’s a bluebird in my heart; that wants to get out; but I'm too tough for him.” These lines can definitely be related to a personal level. I was a grade 2 student at my new elementary school. I noticed that all the older cool kids at my school would dress a particular way.  As a kid who noted a lot of things, I thought that the way they dressed made them cool. Each and every one of them was wearing baggy jeans tucked into their socks and large shirts that hung to their knees.  As a grade 2 student, I wanted to be cool too. I started wearing some massive jeans tucked into my socks, rocked some nice shirts that could fit my uncle, and those bootleg Timberlands from Payless. To be honest, I thought I was starting to fit in with the people around me and I certainly did. The only thing missing was myself. Buried in these XL sizes, I knew that this wasn’t me. I didn’t have to wear my clothes in a particular way to be cool. Staying true to who you are is what makes us cool. But as a kid, I didn’t know any better and followed the older kids anyway. This eventually grew onto me, but I didn’t let it change my inner self. The only thing that changed is the way I appeared to others.  In today’s culture individuals get lost in their “search” for the correct version of themselves. The correct version of you is the one that comes most naturally. That is in fact 100% you.  

Iphone 7 Headphone Jack...Where did it go?

#NewUsesForWiredHeadphones

"Listen to nothing" #NewUsesForWiredHeadphones

To be honest, I was looking forward to the release of Apple's Iphone 7 because their previous model was quite a banger and I was interested to see some new added features. Although the device has some newly added specs and an interesting software update, I'm still concerned about their wireless headphone idea. It is actually surprising to see Apple take a whole new approach to their innovation of technology. The Bluetooth "AirPods" that replaced the wired headphones, may not be as convenient. First of all, consumers have to pitch in an extra $159.00 plus tax, for these little pods that hang in your ear. They will most definitely look awkward in your ear, causing people to give you a double take. Most importantly, it is so easy to misplace these pods because they are quite small. There goes another $159.00 plus tax. That's certainly a smart approach by Apple. Easy money. However, Apple does ship out a 3.5mm adapter which is wired to a set of headphones. On the bright side, the charging cable and headphones go in the same hole : ), but on the dark side, you cant listen to music and charge your device at the same time.  Maybe Apple does not want their headphones to be used on other devices or they're trying to keep the design of the Iphone as simple as possible. Anyhow, this new approach is breathtaking for consumers who are interested in this device as they have to consider some of these new options.

What do we owe others?

What do we owe others?

To be honest, in any type of relationship the truth is something t

"Be you, be true."

hat should be owed or shared between two individuals. Lack of truth affects the quality of a relationship because something is always holding us back. We would have second guesses in what we say or do. The significant other deserves to know what's truly running through one's mind because the relationship is mutual. Both individuals must benefit from the relationship and they have the right to know what the other is thinking.

Not only in romantic relationships, but even in relationships involving our parents or teachers, the truth must be spoken. Expressing our true thoughts to our parents or teachers gives us opportunities to fix our mistakes and become more successful. Correct communication is critical because we can understand one another and overcome problems. Although we may hesitate to speak what's on our mind, it is the best way to feel relieved and to avoid future chaos.


What does this man owe his girlfriend? Is he a bad person?

The man in the poem certainly owes his girlfriend his true opinion and/or thoughts. "...you gave me everything you had and I offered you what was left of me...." It is evident that his girlfriend is putting a greater amount of effort into the relationship. The man sounds as if he is forced to give back to his girlfriend. I believe that there is something holding him back from giving his all. He seems to appreciate and cherish the moments he has with his girlfriend, but there's something in his mind that is pushing him away. In my opinion, I don't think he is a bad person. Although he owes the truth to his significant other, he is scared to open up and tell her what is running through his mind. He may have some issue involving family, friends etc, which is causing him to end his relationship.  Some individuals have troubles opening up and speaking their mind. The only way to avoid complications is to talk it out and exchange the truth with each other.

The man definitely respects his girlfriend. Instead of hurting her by using the knife, he should talk to her and clear things up. If he finds the need to end his relationship, he should talk to her beforehand and explain himself.  Why end a relationship when the feelings are mutual?